<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Taylah Foster Psych]]></title><description><![CDATA[Taylah Foster Psychologist]]></description><link>https://www.taylahfosterpsych.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2026 18:37:58 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.taylahfosterpsych.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Who Are You When You're Not Achieving]]></title><description><![CDATA[For a lot of people, self-worth quietly gets outsourced to achievement. Good grades, promotions, praise, visible progress. It works, in a sense, for a while. Achievement is measurable and external, so it offers a kind of proof that feels solid in a way internal experience often doesn't. The problem is that this kind of worth has to be constantly re-earned. It expires the moment the achieving stops. This is why rest can feel oddly unsettling for people whose self-worth runs on achievement. A...]]></description><link>https://www.taylahfosterpsych.com/post/who-are-you-when-you-re-not-achieving</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a8d715f75822b21d24e3ef1</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2026 10:45:23 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>psychologisttaylah</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Wha Actually Happens In A Therapy Session]]></title><description><![CDATA[A lot of people put off starting therapy simply because they aren't sure what it actually involves, and that uncertainty itself becomes a kind of barrier. What am I supposed to say? What if I cry, or go blank, or don't know what's wrong? What if they judge me? These questions can make the idea of a first session feel far more intimidating than the session itself usually turns out to be. There's no single script, but a first appointment tends to look less like a dramatic confession and more...]]></description><link>https://www.taylahfosterpsych.com/post/wha-actually-happens-in-a-therapy-session</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a8d6f838ecc7fa528036c00</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2026 10:39:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/nsplsh_26cfaef4abda4093b9a0dccb09518d7e~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>psychologisttaylah</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Voice in Your Head Is Not Neutral]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most people carry an inner voice that comments on their choices, their appearance, their performance, often without realising quite how harsh it has become. It can feel so familiar that it registers as simply the truth, rather than as one particular way of talking to yourself, chosen, developed, and reinforced over many years of practice. One of the first things we often do when life gets hard is criticise ourselves for finding it hard in the first place. I should be coping better. Other...]]></description><link>https://www.taylahfosterpsych.com/post/the-voice-in-your-head-is-not-neutral</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a8d6b718ecc7fa5280364ae</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2026 10:22:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_2b6e2d720b1340d5a4001c9d5e7dab2a~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>psychologisttaylah</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You Don't Have To Earn Rest]]></title><description><![CDATA[Many of us were raised, directly or indirectly, with the idea that rest has to be earned, that it's only acceptable once the to-do list is finished, or as a reward for a certain amount of effort. The problem is that the list is never finished. There is always another email, another task, another load of washing, another goal just past this one, which means rest built on this logic ends up permanently out of reach. If you only rest once everything is finished, you may never actually rest at...]]></description><link>https://www.taylahfosterpsych.com/post/you-don-t-have-to-earn-rest</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a8d50eed573a92051ba3f1e</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2026 08:26:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/nsplsh_da252634f233460cb5ceb80508b1e38f~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>psychologisttaylah</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[When Food Stops Being About Food]]></title><description><![CDATA[For a lot of people who struggle with food, the difficulty was never really about food at all. It became a way of managing something else: a need for control when the rest of life felt unpredictable, a way to quiet difficult emotions, or an attempt to feel acceptable in a world that ties a great deal of worth to appearance. Food and the body simply became the place where all of that got expressed. One of the more difficult aspects of disordered eating is how socially acceptable, and even...]]></description><link>https://www.taylahfosterpsych.com/post/when-food-stops-being-about-food</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a8c0f714e12adafbf7ef889</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2026 09:38:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_1708053841314abc811b1c8a0b14a6ac~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>psychologisttaylah</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What We Mean When We Say Mental Health]]></title><description><![CDATA[Mental health is often talked about as though it's a fixed state you either have or don't, something achieved once and then simply kept. In reality, it behaves much more like physical health: it fluctuates, it responds to circumstances, and it needs ongoing attention rather than a single fix. Some weeks you feel steady and capable. Other weeks, for reasons that may or may not be obvious, you don't. Both are part of a normal life, not evidence that something has gone wrong with the plan. One...]]></description><link>https://www.taylahfosterpsych.com/post/what-we-mean-when-we-say-mental-health</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a8c0b6c4e12adafbf7ef0b4</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2026 09:38:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_42e8e4b5056b4e0aba2692c9fc80bd06~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>psychologisttaylah</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who Am I If I Can't Do The Things I Used To?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Physical pain and injury are often treated as a purely physical event, something to be managed with rest, rehabilitation, and time. What tends to be underestimated is how much it can shake a person's sense of identity, especially if movement, sport, or physical capability were central to how you understood yourself before it happened. An injury can change your routine, your independence, your social life, your work, and the ways you normally manage stress, all at once. There is often real...]]></description><link>https://www.taylahfosterpsych.com/post/who-am-i-if-i-can-t-do-the-things-i-used-to</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a8c0e6f2f1065208f2d782d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2026 09:38:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/nsplsh_8b912392ce59412dad9f84b52e0fb05c~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>psychologisttaylah</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>